Episode 1: All the things you don't want to do, but should
I was married for ten years and had three children with my ex-husband. We have now been divorced for twelve years and married to other people for roughly ten. We have worked, sometimes well and sometimes not-so-well, to raise our children together. Two of our children are grown and we have two years with the last one until we no longer share custody or finances. We are not always perfect and we still disagree, so I am not saying anything here because I am an expert. I am just a survivor who has found a way to make the best of a challenging situation in order to make my children's lives better. And, none of this could be done without their father and our respective spouses who work hard to support and love our children. In the meantime, I have had many friends and family members ask me what to do when divorce looms in their lives. I know that it is really hard to listen to anyone when your world is crashing down around you, but there are some facts